We will in this lecture explore the different levels of the Nervous system and how these layers support different ways of feeling, behaviour, and being in relationship, and how we with this understanding can support ourselves, and others, to be more fully present when we relate. The different ways that we can become fixated due to past trauma, from nor being met when we were in our different Developmental stages as a child, or from overwhelming traumatic events as an adult, and how this sometimes makes it challenging to stay present here and now. The implicit organic intelligence in our being that longs for safe contact and being together without drama from the past.